Hmm...

Perhaps we can get more people to come to this site, and so things can be more active.. Somewhat like Jiro said.. However I'm avaible as much as you need.

I love the skins and color. This type of question means DEEP DEEP thinking....
Nope, have nothing. It's fine as it is.. But maybe we can change the skin for holidays....
Mame
Mimitchi.com gets over 60,000 hits per month, which is a nice size for a small specific audience site like this one. I've peaked over 100k a month a few times every year around the holidays.
Just not many of them are interested in the chat board, they come for the info they want and leave heh

I adore this color layout and we just launched it 6 months ago, chances of me changing it any time soon is not high. I like colorful and nice on the eyes. I find pure white themes or pure black themes to be blinding and unwelcoming (hence why I'll never look like tamatalk as Black Candy suggested). I like to be original.. I'm happy I am ^.^ Maybe a color change will happen down the road, but... thats far into the future ^.^
We are still new and with so much competition... well in the end it's quality over quantity. We have so many nice people here and they all make great thoughtful posts. I think thats far better then having 5,000 people with only mediocre post quality. Also many of us are older as well as younger - it's a nice mix of community.
I think Jiro is right too about the holidays... things slow down after the holidays and we launched in the holiday season.
Anyways, as always I appreciate the feedback - Thanks! ^.^