Yes I pause it Alot BUT! I Have a mom and a baby and all day to day it has been a baby?!
So it's a mom with baby then. Well the adult won't leave it's child until it's been with it for 24 hours. This means unpaused time.
If the parent got the baby at 10:30am for example, if you did not pause it at all, you would of been able to set your time to 11:59pm AT 10:30am the next day and the parent would of gone.
However from this statement, this tells me you in fact pause a lot, so then the baby can't be taken care of by you because the parent has not left yet.