idk how tamas are gay O_O
It's 'cause of the whole concept of care-taking. "Real men don't participate with the care taking of their children, they go out and make money
" so basically showing some affection is queerish. Of course, that's a complete lie and we all know that. Take me for instance, I've a son whom I raise with my best friend. People think we're a gay couple, little do they know that the kids mother wants nothing to do with him, but no, we have to endure name callings. Just 'cause two guys give a child a home instead of putting him up for adoption.
Sorry if it sounds like it got too personal.